Is love that is given without any *conditions*. This is love
that has no limits or boundaries, it does not possess, or dictate. It is freely given without
expectations of receiving in return. Can also be self-sacrificing. Given freely
without expecting to be loved in return. Doesn't look out for own interest
but for the interest of the loved one. Despite of knowing imperfection,
feelings will still be the same. Will still love the unlovable and forgive
the unforgivable. Love with no strings attached. Love the person and
accept them for who they are without reservation - meaning don't love
this part of the person but not another part, etc. Love "ALL" of that
person no matter what. Is always there for a person.
There are no conditions required of the person - "love" is present
without conditions placed on it. Means without restrictions/conditons
or limits. There are no conditions, no matter what this person says,
does, doesn't do...you will still always love them. To love someone
'faults', 'flaws' and all not expecting them to be 'perfect'. Loving
someone completely for everything that they are; finding the beauty
in all their nuances, no matter what they are. No expectations, just
relishing of the splendor it is large or small! About giving all you have
and all you are. Means caring genuinely about someone else's happiness.
And real love is not defined by kisses, hugs, sex, more sex, ecc. It is about
accepting the very truth of someone.
It's quite undramatic as it might seem be, there are no need of hugs,
kisses, caresses etc. But when someone is accepting you just the way
you are. That's the moment of real love actually happens. Says: "I love
you for you. I may not always like what you do, I may be angry and
disappointed with you at times, but I will always love you". Has no
conditions attached to the love. You love them no matter what they
are or do or say ....you will always love them. Loves no matter what
type of drama goes down they just love you. Love calls for a great
deal more, a sense of commitment, a feeling of responsibility to the
other person, and a willingness to work out problems. Desire for
reconciliation. Is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not
boast, it is not proud. It is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not
easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.....It always protects,
always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Requires bonding
beyond the surface, appearance, and behaviour of someone.
Requires openness and honesty.
This is the type of 'love' i thought Ihad at one time, but conditions
were set. I could not live up to their expections or conditions. This is the type
of "love" that I really want and wanted..